Wife eager to be mother must confront Mr. Reluctant
When I try to get him in the mood, he always finds an excuse.
Future Mommy in Wisconsin
Dear Future Mommy:
If he has changed his mind about having children, talk to a lawyer, because you may be able to get an annulment.
Are you sure this person is who he has represented himself to be? “Because his grandparents did it” is not a good reason to go through with a marriage to a stranger.
If his story is true, it appears this young man’s family has his future mapped out for him, and he isn’t independent enough to resist.
If you continue this Skype romance, I see nothing but sadness ahead for you.
[...] I have to lie my way out of events and other stuff I don’t want to do, or never had any intention of ever doing.
The problem with making promises you can’t keep is that eventually you will become labeled as a flake when you don’t follow through.
If you’re afraid you won’t be liked if you take the risk of just saying no, you are mistaken.
People will respect you for standing up for yourself and drawing the line, as long as it’s done politely.
