DEAR DEIDRE: DESPITE the fact I love my wife, I have fallen in lust with her sister and I am desperate to have sex with her.
Neither of them has any idea.
I’m 42 and my wife is 39. We have been together for eight years and have a gorgeous daughter, aged three.
For the past few months all I can think about is having sex with my sister-in-law.
My sister-in-law has been divorced for a couple of years and has two children.
She is 37 and very attractive, with a lovely curvy body that she confidently shows off.
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She always looks amazing. My wife dresses more conservatively.
I love my wife and daughter, so I don’t know why I am having these thoughts about her all of a sudden.
I keep fantasising about having a relationship with my sister-in-law, and financially supporting her and her children, as she is currently struggling.
She is having difficulty finding someone new and I think I could give her what she needs and fulfil my own desires with her.
Part of me wants to make a move but I know it could cost me my marriage and my child.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Who are you trying to kid?
You stand to lose everything and your wife is unlikely to forgive either of you if she found out – which she would.
Think how your daughter would be affected too.
Focus on strengthening and enriching the good things you share with your wife.
Your wife’s sister will share similar traits and characteristics so it’s not surprising you feel attracted to her but, if you have any sense at all, you will do nothing.
Lust like this can come out of the blue and fade just as swiftly as long as you don’t give in to it.
Your wife’s sister can find support through Gingerbread.org.uk (0808 802 0925), which helps single parents.
