A CONCERNED woman shared how her boyfriend landed in hot water after she uncovered his personal hygiene habits.
She was considering ending her relationship because her boyfriend refused to clean a certain spot.
A Redditor considered breaking up with her boyfriend after discovering his hygiene habits (Stock photo)[/caption]Redditor Colorado-girl-kisses opened up about her dating dilemma in a viral post.
She explained that a discovery about her boyfriend made her throw in the towel.
“I recently learned that my boyfriend does not wash his butt in the shower,” she said.
“We were taking a shower together, and I noticed that he applied soap [to] his hand and gently rubbed it over his body. He said he uses his hand to shower, not a loofa, washcloth, etc.”
“I also noticed that he didn’t wash his butt. He said that when he’s in the shower, the water rinses over his butt, and that’s how he washes it.
Despite the shocking revelation, her spirits were not dampened — at least not at first.
“I tried to be understanding as maybe his parents never taught him how to properly shower,” she said.
“I told him he needed to open his cheeks and wash in the crack. I thought we had come to an understanding that he would do so.”
A few days later, she found that she was the one cracking.
“That all happened on Saturday. Now it is Tuesday, and I’ve asked him if he has washed his butt since that conversation we had,” she said.
“He said no, that he thought it was nasty to stick his hand in there to wash it.
“This time, I am starting to distance myself from the relationship. [In my opinion], he is a grown man [who] doesn’t practice basic hygiene.
“In his opinion, he needs time to get comfortable with the idea.
“I can’t tell if I’m being too harsh on him or if my wanting to end things is justified. Do I throw away the best partner I’ve ever had over this?”
I told him he needed to open his cheeks and wash in the crack. I thought we had come to an understanding that he would do so.
Redditor Colorado-girl-kisses
While she was worried the incident was a shallow reason for the breakup, people encouraged her to wave goodbye to him.
“I remember overhearing a girl in college tell her friend how she has to lure her [boyfriend] into the shower with sex so he would bathe,” said one commenter.
“I don’t know why people bother staying with those who are disgusting.”
“I’m a dude. Your bf is gross,” agreed another.
Others agreed that she made the right decision.
“If a grown man can’t clean his a**, he probably isn’t wiping it well either,” said one viewer.
“It’s a dealbreaker for me.”