FINDING out your significant other has been cheating is every woman’s worst nightmare, but one relationship expert has been sharing tips for just that.
Keena, from Texas, shares relationship tips and advice online, including how to date married men, much to some people’s horror.
In a recent video uploaded to her YouTube account, Keena shared some of the “rules” for women who want to date a married man.
“I’m not here to judge anybody, I’m not here to condone anything, I’m just here to give the rules of the game,” Keena said.
The first bit of advice the relationship expert gave was to “prepare to be uncomfortable.”
According to Keena, anyone getting involved in such a situation should know it will be an “emotional rollercoaster” the entire time.
“You already know there’s another woman so you acting shocked and surprised? save it, you singed up for the relationship, you already know that’s what it is,” she added.
Controversially, Keena also recommended having an “end game” including how long you want the fling to last, and how to end it amicably.
“This guy is not going to end up with you,” she warned.
Dating married men is all about having realistic expectations, she explained, so dating multiple men at the same time is the way to go as far as Keena is concerned.
And although many men “downplay” how much they care about their wives, Kenna said she would actually respect a man more if he was honest about the situation.
She said: “I would admire a men who tells me ‘you know what, I love my wife I just like to mix it up, I like verity but I love her, I’m never going to leave her.’ I’ll have more respect for him.”
Keena also told women what to do if the wife ever finds out – and it won’t end well for you.
Even if the wife kicks him out for a while, chances are they’ll still end up together – and even if they don’t, he probably won’t want you.
“You are a pit stop, you are a side chick, you are somebody he is playing with to mix it up,” she said.
Finally, Keena warned against introducing any married men to your family.
She said married men are “off limits” to family no matter what, since they’re going to leave eventually.
After sharing her ‘advice’ many people rushed to the comments of the video to share their experience.
Many slammed Keena for sharing her tips, “You should never get involved with anyone married it will only end in heartbreak. Shame on you,” one wrote.
But others praised Keena for being brutally honest, one said: “Thanks for your candid honesty. I appreciate you for being real and opening up a subject people need to talk about.”
And another said: “Yes, married men never talk about the good times they share with their wives only the bad.”
