DEAR DEIDRE: AN amazing man who I really fancied has started telling me complicated stories and I’m wondering if he’s creating fake scenarios to avoid another date.
We met on Instagram and went on three lovely dates.
Then just one hour before our fourth date, he cancelled.
He works in a pub and said all the electrics had broken. He also claimed there was a leak behind the bar.
Then he cancelled again saying he needed to move out of his flat temporarily as there is dodgy pipework – despite the council finding a hotel for him to stay in. I feel so unsettled.
It just seems an odd coincidence that everything went wrong after our dates.
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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m sorry you’re doubting this man’s honesty.
If he keeps coming up with excuses, you may never find out why he pulled back, but it’s his issue and not yours.
You just need to work out if your feelings are normal or a sign of a deeper-rooted issue.
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