REAL Housewives of Orange County alum Braunwyn Windham-Burke boasts she has sex 10 times a DAY with her new girlfriend Victoria Brito and has enjoyed 15-minute orgasms.
The 44-year-old star, who has a unique living situation with husband Sean after coming out as gay in 2020, is the happiest she’s ever been after quitting booze and finding love again.
She splits her time between their luxury family rental in Orange County, California, and her and Brito’s one-bed pad in the Big Apple – which they recently moved into after six months of dating.
In a bombshell exclusive interview with The Sun from her home in Newport Beach, Braunwyn gushed about her new lover and her very spicy sex life over 40.
“I am definitely smitten,” she admitted. “I have a beautiful relationship. I met her in New York and she feels like home to me. There’s no other way to describe it.
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“We’ve recently moved in with each other. We have a place in Brooklyn and I’m excited to see where all this goes. I get red when I talk about it, you know, it’s spicy, it’s good, she’s got skills.
“The physical part of it is amazing. I’m not gonna to lie, the sex is next level. I hope every woman gets to experience this at least once in their life, what I’ve been experiencing lately.”
She revealed: “I had a 15 minute orgasm, 15 minutes! I didn’t know that could happen. And my sex life with Sean was great. He had skills, he was good at what he did.
“She gives it to me in little doses. She’s like, ‘If I did it all at once, you might die.’ We have sex 10 times a day. That’s not normal.
“And I didn’t think I was a sexual person. Now I’m like, ‘Let’s not leave the bed for the next three days’ I never thought I would be that person, I’m 44 and I’m like a 15 year old boy.
“I look at her and I get turned on, it’s hilarious. I mean, even I have to like laugh at myself.”
She says the connection with Victoria, who is also a dancer and designer, is “easy” and she loves waking up in the morning and staring at the blonde beauty during their intimate moments.
“I’m just so grateful and so thankful that I get to have this second chance at life, to fall in love with a woman,” Braunwyn said.
“I’m living my life authentically as a gay woman. That is incredible. I’m in love, it just feels good. I feel things more, I feel all the feelings and they’re real.”
Braunwyn says she’s been sober since January 30, 2020, and she’s found dating easier since battling alcoholism and coming out, as she can be more herself.
“It is different this time. This is my third time getting sober, but I feel like something has finally clicked inside of me. And that is the knowledge that I’m an alcoholic.
“I don’t have to fight it anymore. I don’t have to negotiate with it. I can’t drink. I cannot drink one drink. I never will. So for me to just take that weight off, to take the burden of choice off, I’m not going to drink today.”
The mother-of-seven, who shares children Hazel, Koa, twins Caden and Curren, Rowan, and Bella, with ex Sean, all aged between 3 and 21, also said she relates to Miranda Hobbes in the Sex And The City reboot.
Cynthia Nixon’s character caused a stir amongst fans of the beloved show when she left her husband Steve for non-binary comedian Che Diaz and dealt with alcohol addiction.
“I was sitting there watching with Victoria and we kinda looked at each other and she’s like, ‘Do you know someone that works there? Because I think she stole your storyline.’
“She gets sober, she comes out later in life, and is dating this beautiful person. And there’s a scene in there, they’re in bed together, and she’s like, ‘That was the most transcendent moment in my life.’
“And I’m like, oh, I’ve said that! We just started laughing. But the thing I love about it is that [the show] reaches a very wide audience, it’s telling stories that maybe wouldn’t have been told before.
“Women being able to say, ‘Hey, it’s later in my life, but it’s never too late to live your life authentically and be able to be the real you,'” adding it’s “never too late in life to have the best sex ever.'”
She says she received a “lot of backlash” when she was filming Real Housewives of Orange County before being dropped after two seasons, as people told her: “You’re not really gay, you’re faking sobriety.”
Braunwyn said: “I think that’s such a big disservice, not only to the [LGBTQ+] community, but to the sober community. I have a beautiful story to tell now.
“With that beauty comes high moments, low moments, dark moments, ugly moments, but that is the beauty of sobriety. That is the beauty of coming out. Not all of our stories are easy.”
Despite the reaction from her Bravo co-stars and online trolls who have criticized her new lifestyle, Braunwyn feels living her life openly has helped others struggling with their sexuality.
She said: “I have been amazed at how many women have come to me and said, ‘Hey, I like women too’ or ‘I think I might be gay’.
“I thought when I came out of 42 that I would be that the only one, it turns out even some people that I’m actually friends with in my real life that I’ve known my whole life [are gay], I’ve been floored.
“I think that me telling my story, other women are starting to tell their stories, having more representation in the community, especially amongst women, is gonna make this more common.”
She said her husband has been incredibly supportive even though the separation has been tough on them, and they both live at their Newport Beach property with the children when the other is away.
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As for if she’s done having kids, Braunwyn is ruling nothing out, saying: “That’s the amazing thing, I don’t know. Maybe Sean will end up with someone, have kids, or maybe I will, [but] for Sean and I, we’re obviously done, we’ve had seven kids.
“That’s a beautiful thing to have done, and our marriage is good. It’s definitely been hard, cohabitating, nesting. We’ve had to find our footing. We’ve had to take long separations from each other to figure out where we’re going.
“But I think we’ve found a good rhythm right now. I think we’ve found something that works and you know, today everything is good. Obviously things are always open for change.”
