I intentionally spilled wine on my best friend’s wedding dress during the reception – she’s mad but I had a good reason

SPILLING wine on a bride’s wedding gown is one of the worst wedding faux pas a guest can make.

But one brazen maid of honor has made it clear she wasn’t going to apologize for dousing her best friend in red wine on her big day.

Yet the anonymous woman claimed the bride made her do it.

The guilt-free woman, who posted on Reddit asking if she was in the wrong, revealed she’d done her best to give her best friend the wedding of her dreams.

After all, she was involved in the entire wedding process and took her role as maid of honor very seriously.

However, the bride is convinced that her whole ceremony was ruined because of her.

“The bride, for her wedding day, chose one of those two-in-one gowns that switch between being a massive tulle ballgown for the wedding and a slinky tight mermaid gown for the reception because it has a detachable tulle skirt layer,” the maid of honor explained.

“Katie is a very showy and extra person, something that I adore about her, so she decided that during the reception she’d step out of her detachable tulle skirt and reveal the underlying mermaid gown in a dramatic fashion in front of the guests.

“It was very on-brand for her to decide that she was gonna do something dramatic with the ‘costume change’ and I was fully in support of this idea.

“We tried to brainstorm reveal ideas together, and she came up with one that was very risky, but as dramatic and sensational as the bride herself.

They decided that during the reception the maid of honor would “accidentally” spill her glass of wine on the bride.

After the accident, she was supposed to act alarmed and petrified by her own “clumsiness.”

Meanwhile, the bride had her own role to play. She was supposed to be furious with her maid of honor.

And as the guests gasped with utter shock, the bride would quickly snap her skirt off which would reveal the second gown.

The maid of honor admitted: “I was skeptical at first, but I finally agreed because this is a very her thing to do, and I didn’t want to stifle her dramatist.”

But when it came time to do their grand performance, something went wrong.

On the day of the ceremony, the maid of honor went ahead and tipped over her glass of wine as planned.

She noted: “It wasn’t a lot but it was a substantial amount.”

As expected, the wedding guests were immediately concerned and convinced the incident had ruined the bride’s dress.

But the maid of honor noticed the bride was dragging her performance longer than she predicted, which led her to really panic.

But once the bride removed the top layer of her dress, they noticed damage was already done.

It looked like the wine had soaked through and really ruined her gown.

The maid of honor explained: “It was a cringey moment since the reveal was a total fail.”

And to make matters worse, the groomsmen started making fun of her, which only made her even angrier.

Nevertheless, the maid of honor tried to stay optimistic by reminding the bride this was going to be a funny story to tell for years to come.

Despite the two ladies having talked it out before the bride left for her honeymoon, she was still mad and demanded an apology.

However, that didn’t seem like it was going to happen anytime soon.

The maid of honor made sure to tell the bride that since she was the one to come up with the risky plan, it was ultimately her own fault and that she wasn’t going to be taking any blame for it.

The now-married woman was left furious.

She concluded her discussion by letting her know what a horrible friend she was and apparently her family had agreed.

Regardless of it was her fault or not, the majority of comments didn’t think the plan should have been done in the first place.

One person wrote: “Even if the wine pouring went as planned and the bride was happy, that’s just an icky thing for all the guests to witness.”

A second said: “This was an incredibly stupid idea. Not just because it had a high probability of failure, but also because she essentially ruined her own wedding dress?”