DEAR DEIDRE: MY fiancé has worn me down with his endless cheating and lies.
I’m 37 and he’s 39. We’ve been together for five years and he has cheated on me several times, each time begging for forgiveness and another chance.
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I’ve always agreed, but have been feeling more and more unhappy.
Recently, I found evidence that he’s been accessing brutal porn websites, as well as dating websites, and looking up old girlfriends on Google.
When I confronted him, he denied it. There was no apology. In fact, he accused me of lying.
Then he said our problem was that I don’t want to have sex often enough.
I love him, but I’m clearly not enough for him.
I don’t know how I can live like this.
DEIDRE SAYS: You are not to blame.
Until your fiancé takes responsibility for his behaviour, nothing will change.
You deserve better.
You have tried to make the relationship work but the trust is gone and you’re desperately unhappy.
Tell him how you feel and insist he gets help.
If he refuses, then please think about ending it.
You may like to talk to a relationship counsellor.
Try relate.org.uk or tavistockrelationships.org.
