DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend and I get on great. The only issue is that she finds sex uncomfortable and struggles with the size of my penis.
I wouldn’t have thought it was especially large at 7.5 inches long and 6 inches around.
We use lots of lube but she says I hit her cervix at times. She struggles with oral as well.
I am 33 and she is 22. Will she get used to it in time? The porn stars who are nine or ten inches don’t seem to have any issues.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You must remember that porn videos are acted and shot at special angles rather than being true to real life.
You are on the large side of average but it shouldn’t cause lasting problems as long as you are a sensitive lover and take care that your girlfriend is fully aroused before sex.
Lubrication can be helpful but is no substitute for being sexually ready. A woman’s cervix does rise and fall with her menstrual cycles so you need to allow for your girlfriend finding sex less comfortable around the time of her period.
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