DEAR DEIDRE: I’M still in love with a girl who’s broken my heart before. I’m not sure where I stand but I long to get back with her.
I’m 28 and she is 26. We met six years ago and got on well until she got together with another man. We didn’t speak for a while but then she started reaching out to me when she was having problems with her boyfriend.
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Later, I saw her on a dating app. I reached out to her but it turned out she was still with her boyfriend. We texted but then she went quiet.
She’s had a baby recently and sent me a message telling me. She’s suggested meeting up again when restrictions lift. I don’t know what to do and can’t talk it over with friends. I know they’d tell me not to go back to her again.
DEIDRE SAYS: From what you tell me, they’d be right – and you know that.
Sometimes we repeat the same damaging behaviour, over and over, in the hope there will be a different ending – but there never is.
Each time she contacts you, it churns up your heartache all over again.
You are best to block her, move on and free your heart for someone new.
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