DEAR DEIDRE: I LONG to be seduced, then ravished, but my boyfriend has lost his mojo. We had sex every day at first but it’s been once a month for ages. I thought we’d have the chance for more sex with lockdown but it’s been the opposite. I’m a woman of 24 with a high […]
DEAR DEIDRE: I LONG to be seduced, then ravished, but my boyfriend has lost his mojo.
We had sex every day at first but it’s been once a month for ages.
I thought we’d have the chance for more sex with lockdown but it’s been the opposite.
I’m a woman of 24 with a high sex drive. My boyfriend is 27.
When we do have sex, it’s rushed. He finishes, gets out of bed and goes back to whatever he was doing.
He does nothing to satisfy me. I dress up in sexy lingerie but he laughs.
He says he loves me but describes himself as a “sloth”, in other words, a lazy lover.
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DEIDRE SAYS: The way he treats you smacks of selfishness and a real lack of respect.
Tell him you are unhappy and that either he changes or you will walk away.
Even if he has a low sex drive, he could still pleasure you.
But is his low sex drive down to him drinking too much or smoking?
Has he been viewing too much pornography, which can blunt the appetite for real-life sex?
My e-leaflet on Reviving A Man’s Sex Drive can help – as long as he makes an effort. Do not settle for less.
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