DEAR DEIDRE: ONE of my best friends is getting married to a lovely girl.
He is a massive cheat and I wonder if I should tell her.
He has cheated on her so many times I have lost count.
He always swears he will never do it again but doesn’t keep his word.
He is 29 and I’m 28. She is only 22 and is expecting his baby. I feel she deserves better and should be told about this.
I would not say anything to her face but I could write her an anonymous letter.
I know it would cause upset but I feel it would be better in the long run.
DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t say – or write – anything, it is likely to rebound on to you.
She is very vulnerable as she is expecting his baby.
Who knows what she has already deduced but realising it is common knowledge could make her feel worse.
Talk to your friend. Say that his lovely fiancée deserves better.
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