To so many people in the world, sex is the best thing that could ever happen to them. This is really preposterous as there are over a thousand and one things that could give one a satisfaction which is better than sex.
We could try looking at life from a virgin’s perspective, or better still from the perspective of a growing child who is innocent. Life has a different meaning to people like that as they try to create a world of happiness for themselves outside sex.
Basically, this issue has a lot to do with a person’s mentality and life goals. As a whore, sex would be the ultimate thing that matters as there is always the need to trade the body for monetary and material gain. But if this is not you, then there has to be more to life than that.
No one is going to debase the importance of sex in relationships et al., but even in relationships where sex is an active binder, there are other things that are given more attention than it.
Here are a few things that are more gratifying than sex:
This is completely different from just having money. You may have enough money to last you for a week and consider yourself rich during that period. Being rich is not the same as being wealthy; your attitude towards money when you have a few bucks lying around will tell whether you would be wealthy or just rich at the long run.
If you are concerned about being wealthy in life, then you would find joy in doing things that would make you closer to that dream. Dwelling on the fleeting happiness that comes with sex would not be the highest point in life for you.
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Most people think sex is the best thing that could happen to them because they are in their comfort zone. When you do not have a roof over your head and you have to worry about where to rest your head every day, then you would know life is deeper than sex.
The ability to think this way would make you appreciate the warmness of your bed and the cleanliness of your bed linen each time you lay your head to sleep. You could have a more sound sleep knowing you have no major worries in life than when you have sex and sleep off.
Another thing that is more gratifying in life other than sex is being progressive in life. Trust me when I say sex could be annoying and irritating when one is living in penury. The satisfaction is no longer there as the worries of life come back as soon as it is over.
On a lighter note, peeing after a very long time could be gratifying. You know the satisfaction that comes with finally letting the pee out after a very long time is laced with relief. It takes a long time letting the pee out and if you have ever had this experience, you would agree.
If you run a very busy schedule, you would understand the importance of rest and would not want anything to stand in your way of rest. When you are finally able to hit the bed to rest after a very long week at work, nothing beats that satisfaction. All you want to do is sleep or stay in a state of rest until that fatigue has worn off.
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For someone who has been on a job hunt for many years would find a job more gratifying than sex at that moment. A person like that knows he can buy various services after being paid and that does not exclude sex. Nothing beats that satisfaction at that moment.
Having someone to talk to in times of trouble could be really gratifying especially when you are at crossroads and you do not know where to turn. Having someone who is genuine and true is definitely assuring and for people who are serious minded, they would not want to trade a person like like that for anything else.
For you as a person, what would you consider more gratifying in life?
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