Dear Abby: My son is upset because I don’t have friends
On top of that, I must supervise vendors and contractors, answer to several boards, and have up to eight evening meetings a month. When I finally get home, I don’t want to set up a shopping or dinner date with anybody. While you crave peace and quiet at the end of the day, he worries that you are isolating yourself. Friendships aren’t supposed to drain people; they are supposed to be nurturing. People with rewarding companions they can laugh and commiserate with are happier, less stressed and live longer, so perhaps you should rethink your position. Dear Nostalgic: I’m glad you asked, although I doubt you will heed my advice. Whether she remains in her unhappy marriage is anyone’s guess, but if you step in now, it will only add to her troubles. How do I respond to a gift when I don’t know whether or not it’s a gag gift? Dear Not Sure: I recommend you use the old stand-by: How sweet of you to remember (me, us, our special day, etc.). Thank you for being such a generous sister!