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Sally is The Sun’s Agony Aunt, a trained counsellor, trustee for the charity Family Lives, a relationship and parenting expert. She is a regular voice on radio and is often invited to speak on various panel events.
Sally and her team help between 60-90 people each week and the service has been going for over 45 years.
Sally took over as The Sun’s Agony Aunt when Deidre Sanders retired from the The Dear Deidre column four years ago.
Kate Taylor is a sex and dating writer and is also training as a counsellor. Kate is an advisor for dating website OurTime and is the author of 5 self-help books.
Jane Allton has been a Dear Deidre counsellor for over twenty years. A trained therapist, as well as covering all issues, Jane has specialised in family issues.
Catherine Thomas started on the team at the same time as Jane, also a trained therapist, Catherine has specialised in consumer and relationship issues.
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“Sometimes people are simply looking for a different perspective on a friendship fall-out, other times their sex life is failing and their whole relationship is at risk.
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