DEAR DEIDRE: I AM having great sex with my ex-boyfriend even though he has a new girlfriend. She owns her own flat and I think that’s the only reason he is with her.
We split up six months ago after being together for almost three years. I am 31 and my ex is 34.
I thought our relationship was solid but we suddenly started arguing over nothing, separating and making up again.
I was gutted when he found another woman. From what he’s told me about her she’s minted and owns her own flat.
I can’t help but think the flat is the only reason he is with her. Otherwise why would he continue to see me?
The sex was always good and that hasn’t changed. I know he won’t commit to me again because he doesn’t want to give up his new girlfriend.
He seems to think he can keep seeing his new girlfriend while having secret sex with me.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You are proving he can! Your ex may genuinely care for you as well as lusting after you, but he can’t have it all. He has to choose.
If he can’t commit to you, stop this dead-end secret affair before you get hurt.
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