SUSPENDED in mid-air, this position is set to press all your buttons.
The Italian Chandelier isn’t a new decoration fad, but a way to elevate your love-making to new levels.
In the Italian Chandelier position, one partner lifts their back and butt off the ground using arms and legs, resembling a crab-walk or a gymnastics bridge.
The other partner mirrors this but faces downward.
This position is excellent for G-Spot stimulation and provides a slightly submissive feeling.
Psychologist and sex expert Barbara Santini explains to Peaches and Screams, “The Italian Chandelier position is all about vulnerability and trust.
“It’s about surrendering to your partner completely, both physically and emotionally.”
When you’re in the Italian Chandelier position, it’s essential to help keep your waist elevated to prevent your partner’s arms from tiring quickly.
This is usually manageable, but if you start feeling tired or weak, try placing a few pillows or cushions under your back for support.
To really feel contact with the upper wall of your vagina (G-Spot) during the Italian Chandelier, try arching your back slightly and pushing back onto your partner.
This adjustment can make all the difference in stimulation.
Since your partner won’t be making contact with your clitoris in this position, you might want to provide yourself with manual stimulation using your hands or a vibrator.
Tatyana Dyachenko, a sexual and relationship therapist, stresses, “Communication and trust are essential in the Italian Chandelier position.”
The woman’s vulnerability, being exposed and suspended above her partner, necessitates a deep level of trust and intimacy.
This position invites open communication, encouraging partners to express their desires and needs openly and honestly.
In the Italian Chandelier position, the man primarily takes on the active role.
He will be entering and exiting rhythmically while his hands either grip or support your waist from beneath, maintaining its elevation.
This positioning allows him significant control over the entry angles, which can change the intensity and target areas of stimulation.
By leaning back, he can focus more on stimulating the G-Spot due to increased pressure.
Conversely, leaning forward allows for deeper penetration, intensifying the experience.
Meanwhile, the man positions himself in a reclined posture, ready to embrace his partner with both openness and anticipation.
This sexual position hinges on correct placement and maintaining balance.
The woman puts herself above and towards the upper part of his body, facing away from him.
He takes her in his arms, bearing her weight and subtly directing her movements.
This setup is an intimate ballet of trust and connection, where both partners must rely deeply on one another.
The Magic Bullet sex position promises intense orgasms as your man will be able to hit your G-spot.
To copy the kinky move, simply lie on your back with your legs in the air, which you can rest on your partner’s shoulders if you fancy.
Get your man to kneel in front of you, and he can use your legs for purchase to go as fast or slow as desired.
A slight twist on the Italian Chandelier move is the Golden Arch manoeuvre, which involves the woman sitting on top of her partner so they have the best view of each other during sex.
Love guru Annabelle told the Daily Star: “This head-to-toe position is a great way to have a full view of each other’s bodies.
“He needs to sit with his legs straight and then she needs to sit on top of him with her knees bent over his thighs.
“She has to lean back and then let the pleasure commence as she grinds by lifting her ankles.”
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