A DATE has gone sour, with one woman recounting jumping out of a moving car.
She said she didn’t want to pursue a relationship with the man due to his “red flags.”
Ruthy (@ruthyandthebrain) filmed herself discussing the fiasco in a video on TikTok.
“I literally just hopped out of a moving car because I was on the date from hell, OK?” she said.
“When I tell you, I didn’t even wait for this man to pull over.
“He was over an hour late for our date. Over an hour late, two hour date. I should have known then to just cancel the s**t because you’re not respecting my time,” she added.
She said she “overlooked” the lateness because they’d known one another since high school and Los Angeles is known for heavy traffic.
“He comes to pick me up over an hour late, and when I get in the car, we hug.
“‘Hey, nice to see you. Haven’t seen you in a while. Good to see you,’ right? And then I let him know, ‘Hey, you’re an hour late. Next time, please don’t show up so late because I won’t go on a date.’
“I was being firm. I wasn’t being a b***h. I wasn’t being condescending, I wasn’t yelling. I wasn’t being aggressive. None of that s**t.
“I was just letting him know I’m a very punctual person. My time is valuable to me,” she added.
She said that her date did not take too kindly to her honest request.
“This man turned his car around,” she said.
“Like, ‘I’m taking you back home, who do you think you are telling me that I can’t be late taking you up to a date? I drove 30 minutes to pick you up and I paid for these tickets,'” she added.
She had a warning for others looking for love in the wrong places.
“Don’t ever date the person that has chased you for a long time, that has wanted you for a long time, because they’re usually crazy,” she said.
“I jumped out of a halfway moving car tonight because I could not get away from this man fast enough.
“And I left his door wide the f**k open,” she added, saying he also “peeled off” from the scene.
She added her thoughts about why her date behaved the way he did with her.
“I feel like because he didn’t have access to me for over 20 years, when he finally got the opportunity, he wanted to show me who’s boss,” okay?” she said.
She said he had been trying to go on a date with her for the past 20 years[/caption]