DEAR DEIDRE: WHY does every young woman want a guy who looks like he’s in the cast of Love Island?
Over the past year I’ve been on scores of first dates, and none has led to a second meet-up.
Half the women I like on apps swipe past me without a second glance.
I’m 23 and consider myself a good-looking lad, but I’m no Davide Sanclimenti – I don’t have a six- pack and I don’t do selfies.
Online dating clearly isn’t working for me, but I don’t meet women in my job, and none of my mates have single female friends.
I haven’t had a girlfriend for a few years, and I miss the companionship and closeness.
What can I do?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Online dating is rife with all kinds of pitfalls and is not for everyone.
It can be very shallow, as you say.
And fancying someone you meet online rarely often translates into a real-life personal connection.
However, there are better ways to meet a partner beyond dating apps.
Having a mutual interest is always key.
Get involved in activities and hobbies you’re passionate about, where you will meet women who you can have great conversations with.
My support pack, Widening Your Social Scene, explains more.
