DEAR DEIDRE: EVERY child in my son’s class has the same trainers, and I’m terrified he’s going to get bullied because I can’t afford to buy them.
I was bullied as a child. I still have painful memories and don’t want to give anyone a reason to pick on my son.
He is 11 and I’m 38. I’m a single mum and life is a struggle, particularly with the rise in the cost of living.
My son asked me for a pair of Nike Air Force 1 trainers. He said they are the only ones considered cool by his classmates.
He told me the kids who don’t wear them get called horrible names.
When I said there was no way I could afford them – they’re well over £100 – he burst into tears.
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I looked for some second-hand for him, but couldn’t find any in decent condition or in his size.
I could barely afford the trainers he does have. Now he doesn’t want to go to school.
What can I do? I know designer clothes aren’t important, but I want to protect my son.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Children are desperate to fit in with their peers.
But I’m sure your son isn’t the only one who doesn’t have or can’t afford these expensive trainers.
Your desire to protect your son is natural, but bullies will find any reason to pick on someone.
If you’re worried about bullying in his class, tell the school.
In the meantime, see my Bullying support pack. It might help you too, as your own bullying has left its mark.
You can also call Family Lives (familylives.org.uk, 0808 800 2222), who are there for any parent worried about their child.
