A 52-YEAR-OLD woman has shared her reasons for why she dates younger men and the mutual benefits.
The self-described cougar tells viewers about the advantages of dating younger men and for younger men dating older women.
Transformation coach Patsy Menutti uses her experience as a cougar to help others traverse the lifestyle through her online brand, Hella Cougar.
Some of her resources are also for younger men, also known as “cubbies,” and offer them guidelines on how to meet and date older women.
According to her website, Mennuti decided as a young person that she would remain single and have a series of relationships throughout her life, which has given her a unique perspective on dating and relationships.
Almost all of Menutti’s TikTok content focuses on her life as a cougar, geared toward the “cougartok” community, and dating advice for those in a similar situation.
In one video, she even lists the pros of dating a younger man.
Some of their pros include being carefree, having the “energy of lifetime of possibility ahead,” appearing independent, fun, progressive, and unencumbered, as well as normally being in great physical shape, and, above all, with great stamina.
On the flip side, the cougar also posted a video detailing the satisfaction associated with women dating younger men.
The plot twist is that money should be the last thing on anyone’s mind, and she shares her findings in another well-thought-out video on the platform.
She starts off the video by sharing some of the obvious perks, such as wisdom, maturity, and confidence.
Menutti goes even further to suggest that older women have a more concise idea of what they want, have independence, are great conversationalists, as well as have more life and sexual experience, and, yes, typically more money.
She maintains her fit physique through a regular fitness regimen and exercise, which also gives her the opportunity to scout for a new prospective partner.
The self-described “chaser of cubbies” also enjoys making humorous content that pokes fun at herself and the average age of her younger suitors.
Viewers offered their two cents about her lifestyle in the comments of her videos with many of them sharing their own stories.
“I have an ex 9 years older than me, sadly, no bag,” one TikTok user shared.
“My misses is 53 and I’m 28,” another voiced online.
“Does love have an age??” another inquired.
