DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my wife took my kids and left me because of my drinking, it was the wake-up call I needed to give up the booze.
The problem was, she didn’t believe I could live without alcohol, even though I hadn’t touched a drop in six weeks.
I wrote to you, asking how I could win her back.
I’m 34 and she is 32. Our daughters are five and four.
You suggested I seek professional help with the drinking, so she knew I was serious about quitting.
Your Drinking Problem support pack showed me where to get the assistance I needed.
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You told me to ask for her help and her patience, but to be realistic and accept that if she was adamant about splitting up, I couldn’t change her mind.
Regardless, we had to work together for the sake of our children.
I’m delighted to say she gave me a second chance and I’ve proved myself.
I’ve now been sober for six months and we are back together as a family. Thank you!
DEIDRE SAYS: Quitting drinking is never easy but it is possible, with support. I wish you all the best for a happy and sober future.
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