A WOMAN has shared that her sex life has been impacted after her boyfriend said her big boobs were a “massive turnoff.”
Seeking anonymity, the 20-year-old woman took to Reddit to vent about her latest fight with her partner.
“So I have been with a guy, let’s call him John, for almost 4 months,” she began.
“We first met just before my 18th birthday but only started going out shortly after my 20th.
“I was at his place today to watch a hockey game and made an offhanded comment that when I was younger, I wanted a boob job because I didn’t like that my breasts were big and uneven, the back pain I would get from them, and how I hated that they seemed to make guys oversexualize teenage me.”
Unfortunately, her revealing her story gave him some sort of permission to give his input on her body.
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She continued: “Without looking away from the TV, John said that I should get a boob job as uneven boobs were a ‘massive turnoff’ and that my boobs were so big to the point that they were ‘kinda gross.'”
“He has seen me in just bras and straight topless,” she said.
She also revealed that the two had not gotten “fully” intimate yet.
“I just laughed awkwardly and said I wasn’t in a place to be able to drop a few thousand dollars on a boob job.
“John shrugged and said he could and would pay for my boob job,” she revealed.
“I told John that I honestly didn’t know if I wanted a boob job anymore. That was 14-16 year old me who was insecure about having (what seemed like) the biggest chest in her grade and that 20 yr old me was more confident and kinda liked her boobs.
“John then got mad, like really mad. He slammed his beer can on the table and called me a ‘selfish b***h’ for not considering his preference, especially since he’s offering to pay for the surgery.
“When I said that I didn’t want one right now, or maybe ever, he kicked me out of his house at 10:00 pm, on the opposite end of the city of my house, saying that he needs some time apart from me.
“I ended up catching one of the last buses home and the entire bus ride he’d been texting me testimony from people who have gotten boob reductions and evened them out and telling me to ‘look at how happy they are.’
“He seemed so mad when he kicked me out but in the texts, he’s calling me baby and kitten and just texted me the kiss emoji saying he’s sorry for yelling at me and that he had just had too much to drink (he had been drinking a lot, more than usual) and asking if we’re still on for tomorrow’s lunch date so honestly I don’t really know where we stand right now.”
Following her rant, many took to the comment section to beg her to leave him.
One person wrote: “Please break up with him immediately. You should have self-respect and see the crazy red flags.”
A second one shared: “This man is extraordinarily bad for you and the world. Please block him and run.”
And a third chimed in: “Only title and his age gives me enough info to tell you to dump him.
“He is way too old to go for girls who just turned 18 and way immature if he thinks he can throw a tantrum when he doesn’t get what he wants.
“Also plastic surgery is OK if you want it but should be never done to please someone especially if you don’t want it.”
