DEAR DEIDRE: FINDING out my sister had been calling my boyfriend for regular chats made me jump to the wrong conclusion.
I’m 23 and my sister is 22. My boyfriend is 25.
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I confronted them both and demanded to know what was going on.
Instead of having an affair, it turns out they were arranging a surprise birthday party for me.
Of course I was mortified and apologised but now I’ve made the situation worse by getting drunk and trying to wind up my boyfriend saying I’d had a one-night stand with his male cousin.
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It was not true. But when I’m drunk, I can get difficult and contrary.
Amazingly, my boyfriend believes me and has forgiven me. But I’m worried I’ve permanently damaged our relationship.
DEIDRE SAYS: You have made some wild accusations and then tried to make your boyfriend jealous by lying.
You seem to have low self-esteem and are dealing with a lot of jealousy.
Perhaps some-one in a previous relationship betrayed you, leaving you with trust issues?
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As you have identified drinking too much as a trigger for negative behaviour, by cutting back you’d be able to respond in a more measured manner.
I’m sending you my support packs on Self-esteem and Jealousy to help.
