DEAR DEIDRE: I THOUGHT I had built up a good rapport with a woman who works in my local shop.
We would flirt every time we saw one another but now she seems to have gone cold.
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I am 32 and she is 29. She has only been at the store for six months but she invited me to a work dinner.
When I arrived at the venue, all her colleagues were seated, but one guy who was seated opposite this woman got up and moved so I could sit opposite her.
I definitely felt like she was flirting with me and she even pointedly bought me a cocktail called Hanky Panky.
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I saw her again a few days later as the shop was closing.
I offered her a lift and waited outside in my car, but she walked straight past, totally ignoring me. I’m completely confused. Should I just walk away?
DEIDRE SAYS: She certainly seems to have cooled her interest.
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Be honest with her and tell her you really like her, but you are confused by the mixed messages she is sending out. At least by talking, you will know where you stand.
Far better you take control and let her know you are not prepared to be messed around.