DEAR DEIDRE: VIVID sex dreams about my cousin’s ex-girlfriend are making me feel so guilty that I’m thinking of telling her.
I dream about her often – lurid dreams in which I’m making love to her, or she is giving me oral sex.
I wake up feeling hot and bothered. Sometimes I ejaculate in my sleep.
I’m male and 24 and my cousin is 26. His ex is 25.
When I met her, I found her very attractive but I’d never have made a move.
Now they’ve split up, I wonder if I should say something. The dreams must mean something.
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Confessing all would get this off my chest, and maybe allow me to get a good night’s sleep.
But my cousin might be upset, and his ex might think I’m a creep.
DEIDRE SAYS: Dreams do not mean anything – they’re just the brain’s way of organising itself.
It’s very common to have sex dreams about all kinds of people.
It doesn’t mean you want to be with your cousin’s ex, or that you’ve betrayed your cousin. You have no reason to feel guilty.
Telling this woman or your cousin will just create a problem where there isn’t one.
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