DEAR DEIDRE: WOMEN are supposed to like foreplay, but my girlfriend isn’t interested in it.
She won’t give me oral either, or let me do it to her.
We’re both 18 and have been dating for four months.
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Sex was OK at the start, but now she just makes excuses not to do it.
Sometimes, she’ll go along with it to please me, but I don’t want to feel like I’m forcing her.
DEIDRE SAYS: You’re right not to want to push her.
Maybe she isn’t very sexual, or perhaps she doesn’t feel confident in the bedroom.
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