WHEN it comes to relationships, it is important to have an open line of communication with your partner. If the two of you are on different pages about something but don’t discuss it, you’ll likely get into an argument down the line. One man said he was shaken up when his girlfriend of eight months […]
WHEN it comes to relationships, it is important to have an open line of communication with your partner.
If the two of you are on different pages about something but don’t discuss it, you’ll likely get into an argument down the line.
One man said he was shaken up when his girlfriend of eight months texted her ex-boyfriend without telling him first—and the internet is divided on who is in the right.
Posting to Reddit, the man explained:
“Yesterday, my girlfriend told me she contacted a guy she had a short story with to introduce him to a friend of hers who is looking for a boyfriend.”
The man said that his girlfriend had only had sex with the guy in question one time, but they did go on a few dates as well.
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“At the beginning of my relationship with my girlfriend, he once tried texting her and inviting her for a drink, but she immediately told him she was engaged with me.”
Still, the man couldn’t help but be vexed by the whole situation.
“The idea now is that she invites this guy to drink something with her friend, so that she (her friend) can meet him. She wants to be a sort of matchmaker.
“Well, this whole thing really bothered me.”
Many Reddit users thought he was being unfair:
“They had sex once and it didn’t work out. And they are adult enough to remain on good terms, AND recommend him to her friend. If there was anything there, they’d still be together, and she DAMN SURE would not be setting him up with her friend,” one person wrote.
“Bro she f****** chose you,” another put it plainly.
Some, however, understood the man’s perspective:
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“Na, I’m with you man. I would feel the same as you in your shoes if my girl did that. The dude seems interested in her as he hit her up about going out (kudos to your girl on shutting it down),” one wrote.
“Why is everyone acting like he isn’t allowed to be bothered by this? She’s introducing her friend to a guy she used to sleep with and has been invited to go out together with them, that is extremely weird to me,” added another.
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