IN the vast world of dating there are many games to be played, and some people have them all down packed.
A woman who goes by Gabby admitted to testing men on first dates in order to determine if she’ll go out with them again.
“Here are some tests that I play on men in order to see if they’re going to be able to provide and protect me,” she stated on her TikTok.
She started with a widely debated social media topic, men paying on the first date.
She asserted that the man needs to be paying on the first date, regardless of circumstances.
“And if he’s not then, goodbye,” she said dismissively.
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The next test came with an example.
“This weekend I went out to the bar in Miami and I ran into someone that I had been following on Instagram. So we hung out for most of the night and then as we were leaving we both had Ubers going separate ways.
“His Uber came first. He was like ‘oh no I’ll wait for you.’ I was like ‘you don’t have to wait for me,’ being kind, whatever. And this man gets into his Uber and takes off.
“It is 4:00 AM in Miami, Florida, where no good is to come. Everything is shut down and I’m standing by myself in the middle of the f*****g street? Immediately no, immediately no.
“If you don’t care about my safety and making sure that I get into my Uber safely, you’re done. You’re done for. And then if you don’t go ahead and double-check that I made it safely? Bye.”
Gabby’s final test was relative to temperature.
When she’s out, if a guy has a jacket or some type of outerwear on, she will claim to be cold to gauge if the guy would give her “the shirt off his back.”
“And if you don’t you’re dead to me,” she concluded.
People in the comments did not take kind to her words.
“Test this test that. What are we in high school? Stop with the games and communicate!! Way too grown for all this,” one annoyed person commented.
“Men don’t need to provide and protect for every single woman that they meet. You’re confusing a first date with a husband or serious boyfriend,” another added.
A frustrated viewer said: “When a man listens to a woman he’s in trouble if he doesn’t listen to the woman he’s still in trouble there’s no winning.”
Another user questioned her: “So you’re looking for a traditional man, okay cool. Are you a traditional woman tho? I highly doubt it lol.”
“Tell him you’re cold and then refuse when he offers his jacket? He’s gonna think you like to complain or you’re crazy,” another blasted.
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