DEAR DEIDRE: MORNING, noon and night, my boyfriend talks to a woman he’s known for years.
He never spends as much time talking to me as he does to her but says they are just friends. He is 32 and I am 29.
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We have been together for five years and have a daughter aged two.
He chats to this woman behind a closed door and in such a low voice so I can’t hear.
I trust him but this relationship with his friend seems very odd to me.
I think there might be more to it than he is letting on.
What should I do to get his attention?
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DEIDRE SAYS: I would be suspicious too. The focus of his attention should be on you, not this female friend.
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Tell him calmly you would rather he had no contact with this woman who is taking up so much of his time.
He wouldn’t be happy if you were doing the same with another guy.
