DEAR DEIDRE: I AM desperate to get back with my ex after we broke up when she caught me talking to another girl. But she’s adamant that we are nothing more than friends. I’m 29 and my ex is 27. We have a two-year-old daughter together. Things have settled down since our break-up six months […]
DEAR DEIDRE: I AM desperate to get back with my ex after we broke up when she caught me talking to another girl.
But she’s adamant that we are nothing more than friends.
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I’m 29 and my ex is 27. We have a two-year-old daughter together.
Things have settled down since our break-up six months ago and we are getting along for the sake of our daughter.
I go round to have dinner with them and put our little girl to bed.
We take our daughter out together and we speak every day. I’ve been there when my ex falls out with her mates or her family, to help pick up the pieces.
It’s confusing as I don’t know why she chooses me to confide in.
I don’t question her about it because at least I get to spend time with her. I still love her.
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Sometimes she says we do too much together, which will confuse our daughter, yet she’s the one who suggests I spend time with them both.
Am I wasting my time?
DEIDRE SAYS: She is giving you mixed messages and it isn’t surprising you wonder where you stand with her.
This suggests she isn’t sure about what she wants, so you can choose to say nothing and go with the flow, but things will likely carry on as they are.
Instead, make a positive decision to rebuild your life.
If she does realise you are the one for her, you will be more appealing if you are busy and happy, rather than always being available.
