DEAR DEIDRE: A WORK colleague I’ve fallen for is buff, handsome and has a great beard. He ticks all the boxes for what I look for in a man and I’m sure he is gay – but he’s married to a woman. I’m a gay guy of 24 and this man is 38. He is the […]
DEAR DEIDRE: A WORK colleague I’ve fallen for is buff, handsome and has a great beard.
He ticks all the boxes for what I look for in a man and I’m sure he is gay – but he’s married to a woman.
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I’m a gay guy of 24 and this man is 38. He is the team leader and is responsible for showing me the ropes in the factory where we work.
We have so much in common – we support the same football team and play the same video games. He spends so much time with me and we have such a laugh. I look forward to my shifts.
I think constantly about making a move on him. What should I do?
DEIDRE SAYS: You must say nothing. This man is happily married and you could just end up making things embarrassing for both of you.
We can all have unrequited love and it is sad.
But he is not free to be with you right now.
If he knows you’re gay and, deep down, he is too, then if he likes you he’ll say something. Try to keep things professional between you so that you can continue to enjoy a good working relationship.
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