DEAR DEIDRE: I GOT caught using a dating site even though I only married a year ago. I’m a guy of 33 and my wife is 29. Our wedding day was perfect – she looked amazing. But things soon went downhill. She found an email on my phone from a dating site before we married. I […]
DEAR DEIDRE: I GOT caught using a dating site even though I only married a year ago.
I’m a guy of 33 and my wife is 29.
Our wedding day was perfect – she looked amazing. But things soon went downhill.
She found an email on my phone from a dating site before we married.
I promised her I’d not met anyone but she didn’t trust me.
I don’t know why but I joined another site a few months later. Again I got caught out.
Now my wife has booted me out.
She won’t talk to me or let me explain.
I miss her so much.
I was hurt in a past relationship and I didn’t get that loving feeling back until I met my wife.
I have been in tears ever since my wife told me it’s over.
Is this worth ending our marriage over?
My team and I are working safely from home but we are here to help you as always.
Send an email to problems@deardeidre.org.
Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.
You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.
Follow me on Twitter @deardeidre.
DEIDRE SAYS: Your wife feels she will never be able to trust you and that is no way to live.
You are full of remorse now but you need to understand what led you to behave like this so you can realistically commit to do better in future.
Her mind may be made up but write her an honest letter to convince her you have learned your lesson.
Flowers wouldn’t hurt, either.
GOT a story? RING The Sun on 0207 782 4104 or WHATSAPP on 07423720250 or EMAIL exclusive@the-sun.co.uk