DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend is flirting with a guy on my video-gaming team. They’ve arranged for him to stay with her and she can’t see why I’m not happy about this.
I used to play this game competitively and my girlfriend first messaged one of my teammates when I was feeling down. I am 23, she is 20 and this guy is 25.
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He started messaging her every day saying he was “there for her” if her relationship was in trouble, then said he loves her and wants her.
She blocked him for a couple of weeks but later unblocked him and he follows her on social media.
She and I have argued about this but she’s told him he can come to stay at hers. He lives 200 miles away.
It’s obvious what he wants. I want her to block him and focus on us but she says I’m being controlling and is still talking to him all the time. Am I being unfair?
DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t try to police her social life but she shouldn’t expect you to accept her flirting with another guy.
She’s told you he wants her – that’s not just being friendly.
Maybe she enjoys making you jealous. If so, it is not a happy dynamic. Say she runs her own life obviously but you are over if he stays with her.
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