DEAR DEIDRE SINCE I met a woman online, I’ve been messaging her every day. She has sent me sexy pictures and I have really enjoyed getting off on those pics. What’s worrying me is that I’m on medication for depression and anxiety and it’s affecting my sexual performance. It takes me ages to finish. Perhaps […]
DEAR DEIDRE SINCE I met a woman online, I’ve been messaging her every day.
She has sent me sexy pictures and I have really enjoyed getting off on those pics.
What’s worrying me is that I’m on medication for depression and anxiety and it’s affecting my sexual performance.
It takes me ages to finish.
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Perhaps that will change when I’m with her for real but is it a problem or a good thing as far as a woman is concerned?
I can’t wait to meet her for sex as soon as the lockdown is over.
Should I be worried?
I’m 37 and she’s 28.
DEIDRE SAYS: Tell your GP about your sexual performance and ask if you can change medication.
It’s a normal request.
In any case, don’t rush into having sex.
You may feel you know her well but swapping messages and getting off on photos online isn’t the same as a real relationship.
Enjoy talking and taking it slowly – it’s all part of the fun.
