DEAR DEIDRE: A MATE’S joke about me and my wife having a threesome with him has got me wondering. At the time I laughed it off but a week later he asked if I’d thought any more about it. My mate split from his partner a while ago. He said the lack of sex is […]
DEAR DEIDRE: A MATE’S joke about me and my wife having a threesome with him has got me wondering.
At the time I laughed it off but a week later he asked if I’d thought any more about it.
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My mate split from his partner a while ago.
He said the lack of sex is an issue for him and he has lost his confidence dating women.
I am 32 and my wife is 30. My mate is 29.
I know my wife finds him attractive and I’m quite excited by the idea of a threesome.
Should I just have fun and go ahead or could it ruin my marriage?
DEIDRE SAYS: Threesomes may sound like fun but involving others in your sex life so often leads to hurt.
Have you asked your wife how she feels about it?
She may think he is attractive but be horrified that you would be willing to share her.
Tell your friend it is not going to happen. He needs to work on rebuilding his confidence.
My e-leaflet Raising Self-Esteem will help him and Thinking Of A Threesome? will help you.
