DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE never had full sex with my wife even though we’ve been married for over two years.
I’m thinking of leaving her now as this isn’t the way a proper marriage should be.
We both come from good Muslim homes. And we both believe the main purpose of marriage is to have children.
I’ve tried every trick in the book but she is still afraid of having intercourse and will fight me off if I try. I’m 25 and she’s 21.
At this point in our marriage we should have a child or at least one on the way.
I don’t understand why my wife feels this way about sex but it’s putting me under a great deal of pressure.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You’re feeling pressure from your community to start a family but you don’t mention love or concern for your wife.
Do you know how to make her feel cared for? Do you know how to please her in bed?
Women aren’t baby machines. You need to be patient and loving.
Make sure she’s relaxed and aroused. My e-leaflets Is She Not Keen On Sex? and Sex Too Painful? help.
