DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner left me and our three children two weeks ago. I can’t believe he did this to us just before Christmas. He said he wasn’t happy, but didn’t show any signs. I’m 36 and he is 37. We have been together for 12 years and have three children aged eight, six and four. […]
DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner left me and our three children two weeks ago.
I can’t believe he did this to us just before Christmas. He said he wasn’t happy, but didn’t show any signs.
I’m 36 and he is 37. We have been together for 12 years and have three children aged eight, six and four.
I have been seeing him at the weekend when he picks the kids up and he’s coming tomorrow, but I’m finding it so hard as this is not what I wanted.
I’m trying to be so strong for my children but in reality I’m broken.
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DEIDRE SAYS: It is no wonder. Good luck tomor-row, but do find a safe space where you can let your feelings out, whether it is with family or friends.
After Christmas, ask your partner to come for counselling to see if your relationship can be saved, or to make calm arrangements around your children.
My e-leaflet Separation And Divorce will help.
