DEAR DEIDRE: THE man I love is Polish and I am English. He wants to live in Poland where his family are but I don’t want to, even though I have met his family and they are lovely.
I want to work with needy children and I cannot do this where he wants to live. I am 23 and still training.
He is 27. He says he doesn’t think he will ever meet anyone else like me.
I want to start a family and get on with my life but I can’t do that with someone who is not sure where his future lies.
The chaos over whether we are leaving the EU is also eating me up.
We are supposed to be having a conversation to decide on our future when I am trained, but he won’t offer any further commitment. All I can see ahead is heartbreak.
DEIDRE SAYS: It’s when you’re longing to start a family that “mistakes” can happen.
But the last thing you need right now, when you are trying to sort out your relationship, is to find there is a baby on the way.
So use effective contraception and don’t give up on your current life.
Get your qualification. By that time everything may be clearer – the political situation and your feelings.
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