A MAN has revealed that he has been with his girlfriend for over a year and really loves her, but has cheated on her with her aunt.
The 20-year-old confessed that things all started when he went round to his girlfriend’s aunt’s house to help clear some stuff after her nasty breakup.
But things quickly went to the next level – with the man having sex with the 46-year-old aunt in the kitchen – yes, you heard that correctly.
The anonymous man claimed that it was the best sex he has ever had and now, he is unsure on what to do.
Keen to share his story and get some advice, the man took to social media to reveal all, leaving many open-mouthed.
Posting on Reddit, on the r/TrueOffMyChest thread, the man wrote under the username @ApprehensiveProfit80 and titled his post ‘I slept with my girlfriend’s aunt’.
He then explained that he was invited to go and help his 21-year-old girlfriend’s aunt clean out her ex’s stuff from her house.
He shared: “I am pretty close to her family and got along with her aunt greatly, where I would help her with house chores like mowing when her ex didn’t want to and such.
“So the day came, I was about to drive over to her house when my girlfriend said she won’t be able to come over so it would be just her aunt and I which I thought was ok because I’ve been there over countless times.
“When I got there we were moving stuff outside into the yard and the whole time she was very upset.
“At one point we were in the kitchen and she started hugging me, so I, not wanting to be rude, hugged back.”
But what he thought was an innocent hug soon turned into something more, as he added: “Then, next thing I know, she said ‘I need to do it with someone to get over him’, so I agreed.
“She started kissing me and slid her hand down my pants.
“Now I didn’t really know what to do and didn’t want to make things weird or anything so just went along with it and slowly we just ended up doing it there in the kitchen and it was the best sex I’ve ever had with anyone ever.”
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
He claimed that after their raunchy bonk, his girlfriend’s aunt “thanked” him and told him that she didn’t need anymore help.
The man confessed: “So I ended up leaving. Now I haven’t told my girlfriend yet and I don’t know if I should tell her now and explain it to her, or should I just not mention it and hope she never finds out.”
We just ended up doing it there in the kitchen and it was the best sex I’ve ever had with anyone ever
Reddit poster
Unsure on how to proceed, he claimed: “I don’t want things to end with my girlfriend because we’ve been together for a year and a half and I really do love her a lot.
“I regret doing it with her aunt but I can’t change the past so what should I do?”
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Reddit users were left stunned by the man’s confession and quickly flocked to the comments, eager to share their thoughts and advice.
If you are keeping it to yourself, things will get worse
Reddit user
One person snapped: “You crossed a line bro, better go tell your girlfriend.”
Another added: “Honesty is the best policy, but prepare for the worst. You made a big mistake.”
A third advised: “Talk to her and I hope things go well for you, if you are keeping it to yourself, things will get worse.”
Meanwhile, someone else chimed in: “You didn’t love her if you f****d someone else, let alone a family member.”
