My willy is so tiny I have given up on dating and don’t know what to do

DEAR DEIDRE: AT least two or three times a day I measure my manhood. It is so small it is ruining my life.

I am 26 and have never been happy with its size.

Since I left university, I haven’t been in a relationship and even previous ones didn’t last long.

It was obviously because my manhood was too tiny to please any of my partners.

I deliberately avoid dating women because I fear being rejected by them when it comes to sex.

It is always on my mind. It has become an obsession.

You will probably tell me size doesn’t matter – I hear that all the time.

But I know from my female friends this isn’t true. They say size does matter.

They think going out with a guy on the small side isn’t worth the effort.

I feel so alone and useless. It is making me very depressed.

I feel destined to be single for ever.

DEIDRE SAYS: Please believe me when I say your problem isn’t lack of inches, but the hurtful and ill-informed comments of your friends.

A man can be a good lover regardless of his size. What matters most to women is being sensitive and imaginative in bed.

Sexual satisfaction doesn’t come from the penis alone. Most women reach orgasm when the clitoris is stimulated in the right way.

My support pack, Penis Size, will reassure you and help you to believe you really have got what it takes.