DEAR DEIDRE: I AM a man of 32 and I’ve only ever had one relationship, which was with a woman.
It lasted five years but, now that it is over, I would like to try dating a guy.
I worry that people will think I’m too old and having a crisis.
My ex was a family friend and everyone expected me to propose and settle down with her. But I started to find her really dull so we went our separate ways.
Now I feel that I am more drawn to men – or maybe I’m not, I really don’t know.
I guess I’m saying that I’m bi-curious.
However, if I were to take the plunge and go with a man, I don’t think it would be well received by my family.
Should I keep it to myself?
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DEIDRE SAYS: You have the right to explore your own sexuality without having to share your experiences.
Many people question their sexuality later on in life – you are not alone.
Perhaps you will enjoy being with a man. You don’t know until you try.
My support pack called LGBT+ Support explains more.
Get out with your friends but worry less about finding somebody who is partner material and just enjoy the social side.
If you do opt for a same-sex relationship, you’ll find support through fflag.org.uk (0300 688 0368).
They will help you think about how to tell your friends and family that you are gay – if and when you decide that is the right thing to do.
Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.
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