One of the more common questions, or perhaps I should say laments, I hear is from job seekers facing rejection. Working professionals talk about sending scores of resumes without a single interview. College students mention not getting any on-campus interviews, even while their peers get jobs or internships. I hear frustration, anger, anxiety, and fear as they wonder “what’s wrong with me?” It may be you, but it just as likely may not be. More importantly, this is normal. Understanding these facets of your job search, and the rejections you’ll face will help you move past the depression and anxiety. Often, it’s not you so don’t take it personally. First, let’s understand why it may be you. Job hunting is much like dating in that both sides are searching and it's an inefficient process with lots of rejection. I think I have a lot to offer, but plenty of women have certainly felt I wasn’t right for them. What if I told you I tried speed dating at a local church and didn’t have a...
