My wife sent sexy pictures in her underwear to man she met on Instagram
DEAR DEIDRE: I FOUND out my wife has been sending sexy pictures of herself to another man, and it has sent my anxiety through the roof.
I am 37 and my wife is 35. We have been together for six years and have a two-year-old daughter.
My wife is a lovely woman and I thought she was happy.
When I confronted her, she admitted she’d been worried but this other man wouldn’t stop pestering her so she continued obliging him.
Her justification was she felt she needed a bit of excitement in her life and when this guy started messaging her on Instagram, she went along with it.
The messages were mostly flirty, but some were sexual. The photos were mostly of her in her underwear.
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This feels like a massive betrayal.
My wife has apologised and has promised to stop but I am struggling to move past this.
How can I stay in a relationship with someone I don’t trust?
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DEIDRE SAYS: This is a form of cheating.
Tell her how hurt you are and ask her how she would feel if you were doing the same thing with other women.
Trust is essential in a relationship. Even if your wife hasn’t actively had an affair, she has been talking to another man in secret, knowing it was wrong.
My support pack, Cheating – Can You Get Over It? should help you decide whether there is any way to save your marriage.