DEAR DEIDRE: A solo weekend visit to a naturist camp has reawakened my husband’s libido.
While I enjoyed our night of passion, I’m anxious he might have cheated because, before he went away, we hadn’t had sex in months.
I’m 52 and my husband is 54. We’ve been married for 14 years.
We always used to have a great sex life but, recently, my husband has had problems getting an erection.
He went to the doctor but all the tests came back normal.
Although I tried not to make him feel bad, I really missed intimacy with him.
My husband has always liked the idea of naturism. He enjoys walking around our house nude and says it’s liberating.
But I am self-conscious about my body and wouldn’t dream of trying it.
Last week, he went to visit a mate for the weekend. When he came home he admitted he’d been to a nudist camp, but had been afraid to tell me in advance.
The next morning, he woke up with an erection and we had the best sex we’ve had in years.
Should I be worried?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t assume he’s cheated.
What’s more likely is that his erection problems were caused by performance anxiety.
Going to a naturist camp was indeed liberating – it boosted his self-esteem, allowed him to express himself and was a turn-on for him.
My support pack on Erection Problems will tell you more.
Enjoy getting your sex life back on track but do talk to him if you’re worried.
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