MARTINE McCutcheon shared a “bittersweet” tribute for her husband Jack McManus‘ 40th birthday after the death of his father.
The ex EastEnders star, 48, shared a touching post to mark his special day on Sunday.
But the occasion was a mix of emotions following the recent death of Jack’s beloved dad Mick.
She shared snap of Jack with their nine-year-old son Rafferty in the garden over the weekend.
Martine also posted a throwback photo of her in a wedding dress on the day she married Jack in 2012.
The Love Actually star took to social media with a poignant message, writing: ” Darling Jack, Happy 40th Birthday Darling. I know it’s a weird one and bittersweet as you have lost your Darling Dad, Mick and he was your best friend…
“It’s so hard to see you miss someone so much, but you know when I lost my brother that I understand your grief and pain.
“And I also know that in time, you will value the gift of even having him be such a major role in your life and that he will be with you always.
“Nothing will ever take that away… You will appreciate the gift of life and those you love even more!”
Martine praised her late father-in-law for teaching her husband life skills and qualities that she continues to admire.
She went on: “I know Mick was and is SO proud of you! It’s been a tough time for a long time but Mick has passed on to you, the resilience, strength and grace that you will need to not just survive but thrive in your life.
“I have no doubt you will show him that you took it all on board.
“I think you show your children how to ‘Do life’ not so much by what you say but by what you actually do and act through the good, bad and all that’s in between and I know that Rafferty is source of strength and comfort to you and is so excited to have you be his guide and make magical memories together! You are so very loved Jack.
“And as your Dad would say, acknowledge and respect your feelings, let yourself truly feel and reflect on what you don’t have but don’t dwell on it for too long either, as it can swallow you whole when you are low.
“Look for the good in life and in people… Gratitude is the attitude. One step at a time darling.
“You know I love you unconditionally and I just wish I could make it all better!
“But you, like your dad, have touched so many hearts with your love and kindness. You make life better for so many.
“You have lived, laughed and loved, travelled the world writing songs and performing to tens of thousands & have had the gift of making a career out of what you love and what you are so talented at.”
She added: “You are only just 40 and have already achieved so many dreams! Most of all YOU now have the love to pass on to your greatest achievement and gift in life , our boy.
“I hope you feel the love around you today and know, that despite it all, you have the most amazing and rewarding next chapter coming your way! Now, deep breath, let’s have some fun with our boy!”
Martine has had a difficult time lately after the tragic passing of her younger brother in October 2022.
She wrote at the time: “My heart is forever broken…
“My baby brother, my gentle giant, sadly passed away, suddenly, 2 weeks ago. He was 31 years old.
“There is no medical explanation as to why we lost him so soon and whilst we investigate further, we are having to accept that nothing will bring our boy back to us.”
Martine told how her little brother was due to get married next month.
She explained: “I was asked to be bridesmaid and the last time I saw him, was a few days before he passed.”
Shortly after telly favourite Martine revealed her secret battle with crippling anxiety.
She once again took to social media to give her fans an insight into her condition that she felt was so debilitating, it left her unable to drive.
