Sex is so dull with my husband, he acts like a robot in bed with no affection
DEAR DEIDRE: When it comes to sex, my husband is like a robot. He simply doesn’t know what passion is.
I’m 50, he’s 52 and we’ve been married for 20 years.
All he cares about in bed is penetrating, orgasming and getting to sleep.
I’ve put up with it because I love him but I have a huge sex drive and I’m desperate to have passionate fun.
I want him to appreciate my body but frankly I’m lucky if I even get a peck during sex.
I’ve tried everything to spice it up, but he just isn’t interested.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Your sex drives are completely mismatched.
The only way you’ll improve this is through communication.
You’ve tried to spice things up and he hasn’t taken the hint so take things back to basics and tell him exactly what you need.
Explain he needs to delay penetration until you are properly aroused and show him how to get you there.
My support pack Different Sex Drives will help you both achieve this.