A HOT cougar has revealed that her younger cubbies go totally wild in the bedroom and often explore their deepest desires and fantasies.
53-year-old Patsy Mennuti, from sunny Florida, the US, reckons that younger men are more keen to spice things up with older partners because it ”feels safer”.
The 53-year-old, from Florida, revealed that often younger men are afraid to fulfil their fantasies with women their age[/caption] The events coordinator is also a content creator and offers dating advice to those interested in the cougar-cub arrangement[/caption]Corporate events coordinator by day, the fitness enthusiast has a very steamy romantic life, often dating lads who are in their 20s and 30s,
Although the fit cougar used to date men older than her in the past, she discovered how much men lust after a woman who’s approaching her 40s.
“Younger men are very, very into older women,” she said, in an exclusive interview with The U.S. Sun.
“I just started noticing younger men and it was very surprising to me because up until that point I had always gone from a much older man.”
Not only does the 53-year-old love bedroom antics with younger partners – she also encourages fellow middle-aged women to give it a go.
“I always highly encourage older women to entertain it as an option for dating and exploring your sexuality,” she said in the chat.
The content creator, who’s never been married, also shares dating advice for those seeing themselves as cougars – or younger lads seeking a ”cubbie” relationship.
Part of this is also sharing the reality of being with someone not as experienced, including opening up to the idea of experimenting in the bedroom.
“One of the most surprising aspects of being a 53-year-old cougar sleeping with men in their 20s and 30s has been their willingness to explore things with women my age that they would never consider exploring with women their own age,” she said in a recent video.
The fitness babe added she had a few theories as to why young cubs may find experimenting with her thrilling and enjoyable.
The main thing, Patsy reckoned, was that they are “curious” and that “older women bring experience to the table.”
“Younger men look for older women for this experience,” she explained.
“The most important aspect here, I believe, is that younger men feel safe with older women in terms of their exploration and adventuring if you will.
”This is not a knock against younger women. Please don’t take it that way.”
The 53-year-old claimed that some of the blokes she’d met had allegedly been laughed at or mocked for things they wanted to try in the bedroom.
Some, meanwhile, were concerned that younger women may know their friendship group or might spill their private fantasies online for everyone to see.
However, Patsy reassured them, saying she had ”nobody” to share ”some scandalous piece of information” with and her younger lovers had nothing to worry about.
The woman, who said the men never notice her cellulite or her saggy boobs, has won huge support by social media users who raced to praise her attitude.
“This is so true. Acceptance comes with maturity,” wrote one person.
Another agreed, writing: “Fr! Older women..more chill.. more open..we try to keep up with them. Firecrackers still.”
A third commented: “Interesting but I feel younger guys are probably not in it for the long haul older guys want more.”
“I think it’s more out of desperation,” someone else reckoned.
”The few times I met up with a cougar, it’s because I couldn’t get someone my age that night.”