DEAR DEIDRE: When memories of my childhood sexual abuse by a family friend resurfaced, they devastated my life.
I felt unable to tell anyone in my family what had happened to me and pushed everyone away, which made me look like an angry and nasty person. I just wanted to move on and heal.
I’m a 52-year-old woman.
You were so understanding, Deidre. You told me that what had happened to me was in no way my fault and I shouldn’t feel ashamed.
Your support pack, Abused As A Child?, was so helpful. You also recommended I contact NAPAC (National Association for People Abused in Childhood) on 0800 085 3330, and HAVOCA, who help adult survivors (havoc.org), and suggested counselling.
And you followed up to see how I was doing, which was so touching.
I followed your advice and started counselling sessions. I also confided in some close friends and sympathetic family members.
I have good days and bad days but am on the path to healing. Your kind words, understanding and guidance helped so much.
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DEIDRE SAYS: It’s so good to hear you’re getting support. Counselling is effective, but it takes time and can be painful.
I hope in time the good days outweigh the bad.
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