I want more than the mail with my postie
DEAR DEIDRE: I am madly in love with my postie but I don’t know how to tell him how I feel.
He has been delivering my mail for four years now and I miss him if he is away. I got to know him during lockdown when I was receiving lots of packages.
Now I have my own business so he often calls in to collect parcels and has a cuppa with me.
He’s 37 and sex on legs, in my opinion. I’m 36, single and I like a laugh.
We get on really well, but I’ve given him the vibe that I’m not into relationships with men.
He was flirting with me when I first got to know him and I didn’t like it.
Now I know him better, I like him but I don’t know how to tell him the truth – that I’m not interested in women at all and he’s the one I fancy. Have you got any advice to help me?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Yes. You’re going to have to be brave and ask him on a date.
If he flirted with you initially and he is still happy to spend time with you, it’s clear that you two get along.
Suggest that you go out to a concert together or to watch a film you fancy seeing and see whether this relationship can deliver more than just letters.
If you don’t ask, you won’t know how he feels. Good luck!